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What’s on the Ballot and How It Affects Mothers
Election season is somewhat like a holiday for me, a long and visceral one, but a holiday nonetheless. I know not everyone feels this way between the hateful ads, the constant debates, and the...
Why I Want My Kids to Remember the Pandemic
I honestly have no clue what day it is and after the first day of the month, everything runs together and it has been this way since approximately March. When the pandemic first began...
A Letter to my Father: The Ultimate Introvert
My dad hates attention. Even as I write this post, I can imagine him cringing at the fact that I am writing him this letter! However, my dad deserves some kudos because he is...
The Tale of Two Americas: You’re Either All in or All Out
“We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.”-James Baldwin
To say the least, 2020 has been exhausting for many...
Living Through a Pandemic When You Have Anxiety
I have had anxiety for the better part of a decade. I discovered it during my senior year of college when I thought that I was having a heart attack, only for my doctor...
Motherhood: When You Didn’t Think You Would Be a Mom
In a recent interview with People magazine, Oprah discussed why she never had children. She discussed the “depth of responsibility” that it would take to be a mom. She also talked about the people...
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day: Five Books to Commemorate the Day
The third Monday of January, every year, is the commemorative celebration of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Growing up, the day has always been significant because it wasn’t just a day out...
The Day My Daughter Began Preschool
As we get into our stride of the school year, I hope that this year is meeting and exceeding all expectations while not exhausting parents too much. This is my very first time experiencing...
Work and Life and Creating the Balance
I spent my 20's chasing career and money, and I will hold true to the fact that I did the right thing. I waited until I was in my 30's to have children because...
Battle of the Moms: When You and Your Mom Have Different Parenting Styles
Let the record show, my mother raised me, so let me humblebrag...
Saying Goodbye to My Adolescence
For all the angst, my teenage years were amazing. The reason I remember this is because I have several journals chronicling the ages 13-18 that tell me just how idealistic I was at that...
Surviving R. Kelly: A Mother’s Perspective
I am going to admit something, I was complicit in my views. I was a HUGE R. Kelly fan, as well as all of my friends and why wouldn’t we be, R. Kelley has...
What is Your Vision? Tales of a Vision Board
One of the most amazing parts of the New Year is that you have a brand new 365 days to correct things that you didn’t get right in the past 365 days. That may mean...
Are We Raising Grateful Children
The holidays are over.....thank goodness! Don't get me wrong, I love the holidays and I revel in the rest and the ability to spend time with my family. Every year, my mother asks my...